The Unnecessary Guilt for Being Quiet
It was on last night, words dropped before i could be ready to comprehend wisely, brought me to some unintended feeling of being insulted. Her way of talking at a slight glance was completely okay, except for me. Nevertheless, the emphasis of "you're so quiet..." stood out clearly in her sentences, the intention of her impression on me that i could get was rather unpleasant to hear. It was like she also suggested that "I'm an overly quiet person that she could hardly get any benefit from me, there were no good things she had from her relationship with me." made me wonder if.. am i wrong for being like that? Am i wrong for being quiet? Does people wrong for being her own self? Then, why wouldn't people say, why are you so talkative? People barely making a fuss about how talkative someone in some situation, the talkative person would likely being praised here and there instead. Using the same logic, so why does being quiet have to be such a huge problem? ...